It's more of a WWYD.
DS (14) has been friends with this boy since they were 6 years old. They moved about 20 miles away from us 6 years ago as his Mum had a terminal illness and they needed a more suitable house, she died in 2011. This left his Dad with 3 boys under the age of 9. He's in the army so away a lot, they rely a lot on babysitters. Dad is now in a new relationship.
DS and friend have stayed in touch, weekend and holiday sleepovers, facetiming each other during termtime. They have a shared hobby and see each other on Saturdays for this.
I have always been very fond of the friend, he's a nice lad but a bit easily led and highly suggestible.
On New Years Eve he messaged DS to say that he'd persuaded the babysitter to let him have friends round. It got totally out of hand, about 30 people from his year at school turned up and basically trashed the house. The police were called. His Dad was incredibly upset and disappointed in him. His punishment was to be denied the hobby for a few weeks and have all his devices taken off him for a couple of weeks.
My DS was talking to him this week at the shared hobby and friend seems to think the whole thing was a bit of a laugh (might just be bravado). DS says he doesn't really like the way friend is acting, thinks the friendship might have run its course and is thinking of letting it peter out.
Here's my WWYD...friend mentioned that at the disastrous "party" one of the people there (aged 14) had brought and taken Ketamine. DS only told me this because he had no idea what Ketamine was and wanted me to explain it to him. He was shocked when I told him, especially as friend was laughing about it as if it was all a huge joke.
I feel so sorry that he's going down the wrong path, he's a really nice lad but is clearly mixing with a bad crowd. I don't know whether to mention it to his Dad or not as it could be a load of nonsense just to make DS feel like a "baby".
Please be gentle...I'm a bit shocked by all this and really don't know whether to keep my beak out or say something.
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CaptainCrunch · 07/02/2016 14:23
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