Too give up

(9 Posts)
Assquatch Sat 06-Feb-16 22:28:29

I've tried so hard with my best friend and feel I've just had it all chucked back in my face. Why do I bother??

HereIAm20 Sat 06-Feb-16 22:40:09

You bother because you are a nice person and a good friend. Now you must decide whether you want to bother in future or whether to invest your time with other friends instead.

Its crap when that happens but I have been there a few times with various people and mourn "losing them" at the time but there are others out there to meet and have fun with. Its their loss.

Assquatch Sat 06-Feb-16 23:07:56

Yes but she is my only friend, lovely words

Assquatch Sat 06-Feb-16 23:12:01

I can't stop crying. I'm such a wimp. All I want is to be treated the same way I treat others

AgentZigzag Sat 06-Feb-16 23:34:23

What's happened to make you feel like she's chucked it all back in your face?

YANBU to expect to be treated with consideration and be fucked off when someone takes the piss, but if she's your only friend and you want the friendship to continue (at any cost?), could you be letting her get away with murders just to keep things as they are with her?

And she knows you won't call her out and plays on it to a certain extent?

Assquatch Sat 06-Feb-16 23:39:32

She was awful and treated me like poo.

Assquatch Sat 06-Feb-16 23:42:40

I'm feeling pretty down. I have nieces and nephews I've not met as they have been horrible to me and dh won't back down

DonkeyOaty Sat 06-Feb-16 23:46:29

That sucks. I am so sorry.

Is it your sister? (ref to nieces/nephews)

Assquatch Sat 06-Feb-16 23:49:22

No ils are niece nephew ect. But I feel my best friends children are also niece nephew ect. Although it hurts having a neice I've never seen!!!

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