I mean I don't know yet if it will go to court but if it does I just really don't feel happy about it.
It was about an incident that happened in August, with a drunk, mentally challenged man grabbing dd (then 4) and scaring her. I reported it to the police and said I wanted to press charges at the time but afterwards found out that the man has an extremely low IQ and so likely didn't even realise he was doing something wrong, was most likely trying to help.
But it caused nightmares for dd so I made a statement about that and was told it doesn't matter any more if I want to press charges or not as the alleged crime (unlawful restraint) was serious enough to not need my permission for the prosecutor to take the case. But I heard nothing since then and forgot about it until today I was contacted for more information about the effects on dd and I really don't think there are any lingering effects. She has some big issues but I'm fairly certain they are nothing to do with that incident. I don't feel right about the man being punished for something I don't think he could have understood but now I don't get to decide that. I almost wish I had never reported it in the first place.
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Natsku · 05/02/2016 20:23
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