We will be taking our 8 month old to the BIL's next week. She has a neurological condition and can't sit up let alone crawl etc. we are staying at BIL's for the one night. When discussing the trip with his M & D they asked if we were going to pop in to their house.
They live a few short miles from their son, and all family are coming for a buffet meal thing in the evening.
Now...I have said no and DH tentatively agreed but feels guilty. The reason why is their house is an absolute state. I c ant emphasise how grim it is. You can't not wear shoes as who knows what the fuck is on the floor, the sofa is over 30 years old, they have a disgusting cat whose shit stays in its tray til they can be arsed to empty it, they are utter hoarders and are unable to finish jobs so the house is just minefield. She can't crawl but I refuse to take my baby in the house as I wouldn't be able to put her down anywhere.
AIBU to refuse to visit and just let them see us at their sons house? And to make DH tell them the truth why we aren't going to even walk up their drive? He wants to say that because I'm pregnant I can't go near the cat. I know they are going to invite and want us round on the Saturday .
Maybe I'm being selfish but all I'm looking forward to is the mamas and papas outlet...
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JellyBaby26 · 03/02/2016 19:39
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