I'm in my early twenties and my DP and I have been together for 16 months, we rent a flat and have lived together our whole relationship. He is 18yrs older than me, divorced with kids. We are engaged.
I have mental health issues and have been on meds for 5 years. My father also has bi-polar and anxiety.
He constantly tells me if I ever get pregnant he will disown me and has always said this. I never mention wanting children to him but he always says this. I am in no doubt he is serious. Until 2 years ago he controlled every aspect of my life. We have an ok relationship now.
If I do anything he doesn't like he often tells me ive ruined his life and will tell me he's going to kill himself.
The problem is he is the only family I have, I have no extended family and estranged from my mother since 14.
AIBU to try for a baby (happy, financially stable) at the risk of losing the only family member I have?
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noseynoser · 02/02/2016 00:37
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