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I split up with dcs dad 3 years ago due to numerous arguments about him not pulling his weight with the dcs, he subsequently cheated on me and is now living with the ow.
There have been some good and bad times since the split but we are still having the same arguments as he is not fully focused on helping with the dcs I have tried everything in my power to get him involved but his friends and gf always come first.
It all came to a head just before Christmas and we have been nc since then, he came round to my house yesterday and says he wants me to give him another chance as he does want to be a dad 😏 I'm honestly sceptical about the whole thing as I've heard it all before.
he'll go a couple of weeks sticking to an arrangement then will just drop the kids when it doesn't please his gf as she doesn't like him spending time with them at my house. I've really had enough of the constant let downs lies and drama it is effecting both mine and dcs lives so much that I am constantly on edge and don't want to say anything to him incase there's another argument.
So would you continue to go nc or give it another try.
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Bigfishlittlefishtwoeggsinabox · 01/02/2016 16:18
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