Dd is 9 and in a group of 4 friends. They play at school and all do two clubs a week together. The parents take turns with the driving. It works well.
One of the girls has a birthday on Monday and is going to the local theatre on Saturday. Her mum said she could only take two friends. My dd was the one left out.
I realise people have different values but I would not have left one of the girls out. I'd have thought of something they could all do as they're such a tight group.
Dd shed some tears. We had a few crap days. In the end we arranged a nice day out, just the two of us and dd has accepted it. We bought Birthday girl a small token gift for £3 for dd to take into school on Monday to keep everything 'nice'.
Now, birthday girls mum has messaged me to say one of the other girls has an ear infection so can my dd go instead.
I'm inclined to say no (dd was so upset at being left out and so was I if I'm honest) but I can't as dd will be so excited.
So, AIBU to just give the £3 gift or should I now 'upgrade' the gift as dd has been 'upgraded'?
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bornwithaplasticspoon · 28/01/2016 17:22
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