I might just be being precious but this comment really wound me up!
Backstory is I have had a job since I was 15 - part time at a local supermarket up until I finished college. Worked full time since I left college at 18. Since I got the part time job I was expected to pay for things myself. Obviously I was still living at home and my parents provided food and essentials, but if I wanted non essential clothes, or to pop to the cinema with friends, I was expected to pay. Fair enough.
When I turned 17 I spent almost all my wages (this was only about £200-£300 a month as was a Saturday job) on driving lessons and driving related things. Passed my test and bought a very cheap run around. Parents very supportive but did not contribute to this, I wasn't bothered and was pleased I had done it myself.
Fast forward to now (6 years on) I've continued to support myself financially in every aspect. DP and I rent a small flat in London, and are paying off our wedding which is next year. Again, we pay all rent bills etc.
I have just got a new car, as in brand new ordered from the garage. My car died a death and was undriveable so was car less for a month or so. Didn't know what we were going to do as couldn't afford a new one. My Dad recently got headhunted for a new job and got a very significant pay rise. He and my mum explained they didn't want to be patronising but with regards to my car, they were offering to make the payments on a new car until a year after the wedding (so essentially two years out of the four years plan). I was very very grateful and we went to the dealers and ordered the new car.
A friend has recently had car issues too and is looking into options. I suggested the dealers I used as we got a really good deal and thought I was being helpful. Was met with "Well actually, Blue, not all of us have parents who are able to just pay for a new car when we fancy it!".
I'm so cross. My parents are wonderful and always been supportive, however I was taught if I wanted something I pay. Yes they're helping me massively with this car due to my dads pay rise and it's amazing, but I really resent this friend acting like I just fancied a new car so went running to my parents. Writing this down I'm aware how ridiculous it sounds to be so annoyed by one comment but it just got to me.
Grr.
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BlueRaptor · 25/01/2016 17:48
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