Argh now this is making me pretty angry but I feel my OH is being totally unreasonable in this situation.
In short, GP has signed me off work. I'm on antibiotics which are doing their job and have been getting better each day.
I have still however, been incredibly tired and sleeping quite a lot during the day.
OH thinks I am being lazy and should be doing things around the house.
Trying to explain that I wasn't up to that yet is falling on deaf ears.
And I get comments like:
"You CAN'T be tired. You've slept all morning".
"You do seem to be sleeping a lot for someone who is OFF COLOUR!" yes because the GP routinely signs people off who are off colour
"Well I guess I'll be doing dinner AGAIN" (I've barely been eating anyway so hardly caused an inconvenience).
Apparently it was appalling that I didn't help with the shopping yesterday.
The jobs OH wants me to do are things like going through boxes in the garage (things I would normally do when I am off work for a holiday - not ill!)
I feel so cross about it it's making me cry.
You bloody pick someone to be your partner who is supposed to love you no matter what and support you though things... Not
make you feel like crap! :(
(As a disclaimer, I have NEVER been signed off sick in my whole life so it's not even like OH can say it's happened before as it hasn't).
AIBU?!
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AIBU?
To think if you're ill you should be allowed to sleep??
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MrsAttending · 24/01/2016 17:43
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