He has said that I'm a plain Jane. He hasn't said it to me, he said it to someone else and I found out. He has never been the complimentary type (he said my wedding dress was "okay") and he's never told me that I'm gorgeous or beautiful or anything like that. If I dress up, I have to ask him for an opinion. (The answer is usually "nice").
I'm not gorgeous, far from it, but to say that I'm plain? That hurts.
I haven't told him that I know. I finding it hard to even look at him because all I can think is that he's looking at my face and thinking of how dull he thinks I look.
Am I over-reacting with this? It's knocked the confidence out of me (not that I had much to begin with).
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Curlywurlycat · 19/01/2016 10:48
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