Birthday invite for the weekend. I know neither the child nor the parents so texted to ask what sort of gift would be appreciated. A nicely worded response suggested a contribution to a DS. I thought it was quite a good idea to ask for a contribution to a pricey present rather than buy something the child won't like or play with. DH was appalled and thought it was grabby and he would never ask parents (especially ones he didn't know) to contribute to a present.
I think he's being a bit unreasonable. It actually makes perfect sense to me - what's the point in ending up with fifteen presents your child may or not play with as opposed to putting the money towards a wanted gift. That said, I haven't ever dared make this suggestion to parents myself when asked what gift my child would like! Family or close friends yes, but not ones I don't know.....
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EmGee · 19/01/2016 09:43
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