Sorry, it's a bit of a long one!
OK so my SIL and I get on well enough now because family pushed us to make up but there are days when I'm still seething about how she's behaved towards me over the years.
Shortly after having a break down I was convinced by her to go abroad for a weekend. The whole time I was left out of her clique and at various times made fun of by them but luckily had my cousin so we ended up going our own way. When we got home she told a huge pack of lies about me, that I'd been drunk and abusive and even that I'd 'let myself' be sexually assaulted by a group of men!!!! If it wasn't for my cousin being there and being able to vouch for me she would've turned my family against me. In the past she also spiked my drink to make me 'loosen up' and sent rude messages to my OH pretending to be me.
Now this was about 5 years ago and I have always been told to let her behaviour slide because she's had a hard upbringing and needs attention but haven't we all had hard times? Even when I got pregnant with my first she immediately tried to get pregnant afterwards and all attention was on her again and her attempts to conceive.
AIBU? Should I just get over it and move on like my family say? (My OH doesn't agree i should forgive and forget) I mean she is really good to my LO and me now but I just get really angry that she got away with it all.
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AIBU?
To still get so angry after all this time?
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OneTiredMama · 18/01/2016 14:46
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