I'm 35 weeks pregnant and feeling pretty under the weather. I've been diagnosed with SVT (heart beating rapidly, especially when I've just managed to drift off to sleep ), which happens repeatedly - leading to chronic lack of sleep, and depression.
Luckily, I am being looked after by a consultant who's keeping an eye on my heart. I've been signed off work early and am taking it very easy, on doctor's orders.
We had a visit from the MIL yesterday, who shows absolutely zero interest or sympathy - didn't ask anything about what the consultants were doing to manage stuff - and got a lecture on how we should "carry on as normal". Apparently, she had a very active pregnancy and didn't let it get in the way (with the implication being that I am being a precious snowflake).
I accept that this is my first (and last) baby so I am being quite sensitive here...
She also announced to me (while DH was out of the room), that she would be visiting Wales in April to see relatives, and that DH would go along with her for the weekend, alone - without me and the baby. When I asked him about this, he said he knew nothing about it.
AIBU to call her out on being a bit unsympathetic, and (attempting to) dictate whether I attend a family reunion with the baby? Or should I just smile sweetly and continue to tell her to 'eff off' in my head?! Thank you for any advice you can give on 'managing' her.
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To think MIL is being insensitive re: pregnancy?
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PinkPlaid · 17/01/2016 19:20
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