OH and I are getting married this year. Wedding was going to be childfree, but OH's brother and girlfriend have recently adopted and so have two children.
OH is going to ask his brother to be Best Man. I think OH's brother and gf would like their children to be involved and I would happily have them as flower girl etc if they are happy for them to do that.
AIBU 1) not to ask OH's brother's gf to be bridesmaid?
Someone said I really should as her OH and children will likely be involved, but I had thought the children might be happier walking down the aisle if they could see Mum/Dad at the front to walk towards? Also, I already have two bridesmaids and I would be asking out of politeness I suppose, I feel as though that could be worse really. Who wants to be bridesmaid because someone felt obliged to ask?
AIBU 2) not to invite other children, e.g. my cousins/cousin's baby?
Part of me trusts OH's brother and gf to keep their two occupied and, to be honest, I see them regularly and I don't really see my cousins very often. Plus, my side of the family is huge and OH's is minuscule, so it is easier to invite 'all' of his (we're talking 28 people to 8). My side also have a habit of getting smashed and causing rows so inviting some of them (including the children who should be at school as it is a school day) to evening only would make me feel a bit more calm in terms of there being 'fireworks' of sorts...
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jevoudrais · 16/01/2016 17:20
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