Very close relative has just become engaged. She is like a sister to me. For context I'm 23, she's 28.
When she became engaged, she called me asap and I congratulated her, of course - so happy for her! I also jokingly said oh can I be a bridesmaid! We have always said we'd be each other's bridesmaids. Our other sister/close relative would also be one.
It is starting to look a bit more realistic now (me being bridesmaid) although I'm not sure of her plan. And now I'm dreading it
I hate hate hate having photos taken of me and wearing fancy clothes I'm a girly girl and love dresses but am not great looking and have weird proportions - not fat but never really look great in clothes - kind of short and dumpy.
I really don't know whether to say anything! The last thing I do is want to make her day about me. But then I'm dreading wearing a dress I'll look hideous in, regulation bridesmaid makeup, have photos taken that will last a lifetime. I probably sound incredibly vain but it's not really that. I feel sick when i think about it
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ScaredAndSelfishh · 14/01/2016 22:02
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