FIL is elderly has invited himself this evening on our ski holiday. He has been before on quite a few occassions (again - self invited) as well as summer holidays! I told him last summer that we were going with friends and he could not come - as I felt this was becoming quite a habit.
He is a very nice gentleman but we take our 3 young children and stay in cramped accomodation.
He's too elderly to be any help with the children and it's even more work for me to look after another person and listen to his endless chatting
When he asked this evening and about booking dates - I just mumbled and tried to change subject. I know this is a bit wimpy but I was caught on the hop (I know 'no' is a complete sentence etc.)
DH knows how I feel about another holiday with an additional guest and started putting him off gently. However, FIL just started saying how he only has a couple of years left skiing etc.
AIBU in being strict and saying no and offending him greatly? I think our accomodation is too small to take another person comfortably (although hasn't put him off before). He does generally irritate me slightly and will expect to be catered for by me!
If anyone thinks I'm NBU - any advice on how to gently tell him no?
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FIL inviting himself on holiday with us
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bellybuttonfairy · 14/01/2016 21:43
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