I've just had a dd - born Christmas Eve. It has been a very stressful time as she was six weeks prem and we spent nearly a fortnight in hospital after she was born meaning I missed Christmas with ds and he was shoved from pillar to post a bit. Dh was always with him though.
We've been home nearly a week and ds is extremely rough with dd. I've been trying not to leave them alone but it's impossible when I need a shower or a wee etc! I've just come back from the toilet to discover ds practically lying on dd in her basket. I had to tell him three times to get off her before he did and I'm worried he's hurt her. He weighs about 4 stone. She seems ok but I'm livid with him. He is trying to be affectionate some of the time but he's just so rough. He was pulling her head earlier to try and turn it towards him.
He's six and a half and I think he should know better. I appreciate its a big change and I've been giving him lots of attention as dd is sleeping mostly but I realise it isn't the same as before.
Aibu to think I should be able to leave him with her for five minutes without him hurting her - intentionally or otherwise? Any advice from anyone?
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To think my 6 year old should know better?
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Givinguph0pe · 09/01/2016 20:18
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