I was due to go out with three friends on Saturday night.
Known each other since we were at school, so more than fifteen years. It's very rare we can meet up as a foursome these days, as we all have various work and family committments.
This catch up was arranged specifically because the date suited Friend 1. She said she could make Saturday night as her fiancé was away with his mates. This is very in character for her, as she rarely socialises on her own. Anyway, they're getting married in a few months and have things to arrange, so I was prepared to cut her some slack this time.
However, she emailed this morning regretting that she'll have to cancel as fiancé is not meeting up with his mates any more, and she'd rather go out with him instead. She'll let us know when he's off on his own another time, so we can rearrange specifically for a night when he's unavailable.
I suggested to the other two friends we could meet up anyway, seeing we're all free and was told there was no point as Friend 1 now can't come and it would be rude to her. Plus she'll hopefully be able to rearrange soon. They geniunely couldn't see why I was annoyed so I'm asking you, wise people of AIBU, Friend 1 was BU, wasn't she?
I don't mind her cancelling, that's perfectly within her rights and she didn't do so last minute. It's not that, but the fact she clearly said she'd much rather spend time with her fiancé than with her friends. I was left feeling second best. Would I be petty to decline a future night out she deigns to organize?
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pasturesgreen · 06/01/2016 15:29
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