Apologies in advance this is my first post and a long one, so apologies if I have posted in the wrong place still very new to MN!
I am 11 weeks pregnant and have told my parents and DH parents. I work for my DH family buisness and for the past 6 months my MIL has been training me to take over her role (it's a large buisness with over 200 staff) with the view to job sharing as she works less hours. All well and good... However mil has very recently been diagnosed with cancer and has said she is not coming back to work and I would need to take on her job, at this point we told her that I was pregnant.
I don't want to tell anyone at work I'm pregnant next week after the 12 week scan as I've just started in a new role with huge responsibility (that I'm not really ready for) and don't want people at work to feel that the management is disappearing. The problem lie that all mil's friends work in he buisness.
I want to tell my family as it will have no impact on work but my DH said I have to tell everyone or no one. Aibu to say pick and choose who knows? My family and friends have no connection to my work so it would not cross over but DH says it's not fair to his mother.
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Should I keep my pregnancy secret...
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Showgirl109 · 05/01/2016 15:44
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