I am asking on behalf of my daughter, age 20. She has a lovely BF, age 19. Been with him nearly a year, although were best friends for about 18 months before that. At different unis, but manage to see each other in term time quite a fair bit as they do a shared hobby. They are very close and clearly happy together.
We live close to his parents, walkable distance.
He's been often to our house, stayed for tea, days out in the holidays.
However she is ignored? By his parents. No birthday card, Christmas card etc. In fact she has not been invited there at all this holiday. He is clearly annoyed by this as he wanted them to invite her for dinner one day. He has been told she can never come for dinner as she isn't family! Nor was he allowed to bring her on a walk with them as it was a family walk!
Now this seems odd to me. I have never experienced this sort of thing before, my own mil was very welcoming to me.
AIBU to think they might make a bit of an effort? Has anyone else experienced this? How did you deal with it?
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Odd behaviour from boyfriends family
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Headofthehive55 · 03/01/2016 09:06
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