DH does a hobby all day every Saturday from about 8am until 5 or 6pm. Which I think is bad enough but I am getting sick of it because it dominates the whole weekend.
Obviously he is out all day Saturday so we can never do anything as a family, or I can never do anything by myself on Saturdays. When he gets home he is tired and therefore just plonks himself in the chair watching TV, opts out of parenting and dozes off by 8pm. On a Saturday night. Great.
Then on Sundays he is always 'tired' too so just lays around, never wants to do anything, won't do any chores. I end up feeling like a single parent!
I can't just go off on a Sunday and do my own thing as he won't step up and do things with the DC or even make them a sandwich for lunch. He just sits there and moans about being tired from Saturday.
To clarify, it's a fairly physical hobby but not very physical and involves lots of periods of sitting down during the day as well as being active.
I have tried to speak to him about it but he doesn't see the problem. AIBU?
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To be fed up about DH's hobby dominating the whole weekend, every weekend?
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Strawberryade · 21/11/2015 22:13
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