My Dad died three years ago, very suddenly and unexpectedly. He was relatively young and in apparent good health, so his death came completely out of the blue.
When he died my DW was almost 8 months pregnant with DS2, so in the aftermath of his death I concentrated on looking after DW (the end of the pregnancy wasn't easy) and then, of course, DS2 when he was born.
But now, years later, I am finding that I am still preoccupied at times with the loss. I heard one of his favourite songs on the radio this morning and started crying while driving to work. I think a lot about how he could have met DS2 and has more time with DS1.
I feel really self-indulgent and like I'm wallowing. Should this have passed by now? Has anyone else had similar experiences?
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Murdock · 23/10/2015 09:42
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