In brief, FIL (who i've posted about before) has been homeless/sofa surfing/ in a tent on a campsite for the last four months.
He has been turning up more regularly at our home, saying he has no where to go and it will just be for one night.
His health has been pretty poor, he isn't eating or washing but I think his drug use has had more influence on this than his housing situation. It takes about two days to air out the room he has been sleeping in to get rid of the smell.
SIL has lost patience and insisted on him bathing and changing his clothes if he was going to stay with her - which he reluctantly did. This was about two weeks ago.
All the while he has said he is not taking drugs, although it's obvious he is, we've stopped giving money some time ago - but he gets money through car boot sales.
Two days ago we get a phonecall saying he needs 2 weeks rent money urgently as he has a place to live, DH says he can't give him the money. He then asks to stay a night saying he's fallen out with another family member and he's been sleeping in a shed for the past 10 nights. DH wants to give FIL the benefit of the doubt - I think this all sounds fishy.
As FIL is on the other side of town DH goes and picks him up, on the drive he has a really open conversation, no pressure, asking for the truth - FIL swears he will be honest. DH asks if he is taking anything at the moment - FIL says no, not for last 3 months.
DH thinks he is finally getting through to FIL who says he will now go to the homeless shelter the next morning and ask for help "as his pride has got in the way".
When he gets here, I ask again whether he is taking anything - as if he accesses drug treatment he would have a better chance of proper housing help, again he says not touching anything.
After DH left in the morning FIL asks to borrow my phone as he needs to phone a mate about somewhere to sleep tonight, something about the way he asks seems off and he's changed his story (he said he was going to the Homeless place).
AIBU to have a certain app on my phone recording that call?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
To record conversations made on my mobile phone
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Timeforabiscuit · 10/10/2015 18:36
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lexigrey ·
10/10/2015 18:41
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