I've been dating a guy for a few months & often we take our kids out together (they don't know we're dating). This morning we were talking and I said I was thinking of taking my children to Place A but did he have any better ideas. He said he'd let me know what he was up to.
My kids changed their minds about where they wanted to go so I sent him a message inviting him and his kids to lunch at mine. Didn't hear from him for a while so I called him-went straight to voicemail. He then messaged me saying he didn't hear his phone & hadn't replied to my message as he hadn't seen it; but he was just about to take his kids into Place A.
I replied that I was a bit pissed off as he hadn't mentioned going to Place A earlier when I'd said I might take my kids there and that he hadn't even thought to let me know they were going there after all.
AIBU and have I over-reacted or was he a bit thoughtless/not interested in seeing me. He hasn't replied to my last text. I'm feeling quite emotionally fragile at the moment so I'm not sure if I'm thinking clearly. If he'd just said at the beginning that he wanted to spend the day alone with his kids I'd have been fine with that
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or was this a bit thoughtless?
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MyGastIsFlabbered · 10/10/2015 15:55
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