I have name changed due to personal details but I guess I do want to know what you would do, what I can do.
I am certain I want to leave my abusive marriage.
However, our eldest is vocal in that they would want to live with their dad full time and I have a horrible feeling that this would lead to ultimately the whole family being fractured and ruined - if siblings wanted to then live with them, my husband would undoubtedly twist and turn things out of context to make me sound like the bad guy (I'm no saint, but when he gets on one I sound like a psychopath, which I'm not!) and all in all I'm terrified of losing my children to him.
Do I just have to accept that DC1 will go and I will lose them? Or stay? I've stayed for the reasons I've outlined above but I am just not sure any more.
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To accept I'll lose main custody of DC1?
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Leavingsosoon · 10/10/2015 08:27
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