Been with my sister, let the children play late with their cousins. All in PJ's ready to get in car, saying final goodbyes at 9.30 when DD shrieks and blood is pouring from her finger.
So freaking out child who doesn't remember what happened. Clearly a heavy trauma, 20 mins of getting calpol, ice, pads, calming four children, moving car seat to front seat to have her close on 30 min drive home.
Don't know how it happened but she's severely smashed the nail bed and her finger has split, lots of blood, nail looks dislodged.
Get in at 10.20, carry DS and get him down, and then get DD in, settle her. Call Ex.
Asked him to take DS to class tomo while I take DD to hospital.
Apparently I am deliberately trying to make him feel guilty because he has hired a van to collect furniture 2 hour drive away to help someone.
I said I don't know why I bother asking him to parent as he's always too busy. Had a row. Told him don't worry, I will deal with it. Story of my life.
Should he help me? AIBU?
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Asking Ex to take DS to class as DD needs emergency care
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Changedforthispostobv · 09/10/2015 23:00
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