DS has been cycling his bike to school for the last few weeks and around the neighbourhood. He has always had a bike but used to only cycle with an adult when younger and then had a long period of not cycling at all until he got the one he has now which he got last Christmas. He suddenly wants to cycle everywhere. He did a cycling proficiency course in whe he was about 10 but has obviously forgotten everything.
We live in an area which is well served by cycle paths so he would never need to cycle on the road, just cross over them.
DH was out with him a few weeks ago when he flew across a road without looking. DD (18) was with him this afternoon when he again crossed a road with looking properly and was almost hit by a van who had to emergency break. It was a crossing but without lights. I thought I had drummed into him not to cross until the traffic had actually stopped for him . DD was hysterical when they got home and told me. DS shrugged if off and blamed the van.
He has come home occasionally with bruises which he says happened when he fell off the damn thing (collided with a fence/bollard).
I have now said he is not cycling anywhere any more. He has insisted that I can't stop him, which I can as I have the keys to the garage! He is 13 but very much a day dreamer and I think the risk is too high and not really necessary.
AIBU or should I just leave him to learn from his mistakes which could result in death?
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to ban DS(13) from riding his bike?
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HorribleMotherCo · 09/10/2015 22:49
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