Posted before- I need help with way forward pls.
Long story short- dh went nc with his sis 2 yrs ago due to her behaviour (sulking, controlling, aggressive). Through this his dsis not happy and made this clear toward dh and me online. We tried to keep mil out of it as she's very close to his dsis (holidays, daytrips etc) so we didn't say anything negative to her about her dd.
Over time mil has tried to reconcile the two it hasn't worked and dh has ended up with more abuse from his dsis so he asked his mum to stay out of it altogether.
We married recently when mil found out her dd wouldn't be invited she went nuclear at dh and me- shouting at me even though I was pregnant. She was awful and vicious all in front of our toddler dd :(
She refuses to apologise to me.
I have basically avoided her since our wedding as I can't get over some of the things she said to dh and me. She blames me entirely got the situation with her dd even though I didn't know the half of it for months.
Anyway the awkward bit- I have been able to avoid her and go out when she visits but about to give birth and I will be feeding dc again so obviously I can't pop out in the same way. I feel she should see the child but I feel weird about being around someone who obviously has so much anger towards me.
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Knitknatknot · 09/10/2015 08:04
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