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AIBU?

I'm doubting how unreasonable I wasn't being.

48 replies

CatMilkMan · 07/10/2015 12:21

DP uses my shower brush to clean the bath.
I caught her doing it and thought it was weird and a bit gross, she thinks it's totally normal.
I use it to clean myself she uses it to clean the bath, was she being unreasonable? She said she won't do it again and had no idea I wouldn't want her to.

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MinecraftWonder · 07/10/2015 12:23

I think it depends.

If she had hot water on and was just swishing the remaining bubbles away with it and rinsing - I don't think that's that odd really. I don't think it would bother me that much.

However if she was full on cleaning the bath with bathroom cleaner and the brush, that's way ott and I wouldn't be very happy.

BuggerLumpsAnnoyed · 07/10/2015 12:25

No, it's not ok. I can't believe anyone would think it's ok to do that.

WhatWouldJeremyCorbynDo · 07/10/2015 12:26

That's disgusting. I would be pussed off.

WhatWouldJeremyCorbynDo · 07/10/2015 12:26

Or, pissed off. One of the two.

PacificMouse · 07/10/2015 12:27

What is a shower brush?

I gather the problem has been solved. You don't agree to use that brush to clean the bath. She hasistened to you and agreed. What else do you want to happen?

CatMilkMan · 07/10/2015 12:27

It wasn't with bathroom cleaner but it wasn't just bubbles, she had a bath emptied it and then when it was dry turned the water on and used the brush to get rid of any dirt.

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BuggerLumpsAnnoyed · 07/10/2015 12:28

But, at least she didn't cause a big stink about it.

CatMilkMan · 07/10/2015 12:30

It's like this one.
I don't really want anything else to happen I suppose I just wondered if other people thought it was ok.

I'm doubting how unreasonable I wasn't being.
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BlackeyedSusan · 07/10/2015 12:35

it is yours. you can ask for it to be used in accordance to your wishes. (within reason)

CrapBag · 07/10/2015 12:40

Ugh no. You have to clean your body with that, cleaning a dirty bath with it is gross. It's like washing yourself with a toilet brush (ok maybe not quite as assuming you don't shit in the bath) but still, no!

EponasWildDaughter · 07/10/2015 12:40

No! Yuk. YANBU

I would not want something i use on my body used for rubbing round the bath.

Who here would like their tooth brush being used for a quick whiz round the taps?!

ouryve · 07/10/2015 12:40

It's a bit weird using a back brush to clean the bath. Ask her not to. If she persists, tell her she's welcome to use her own things to clean whatever she likes, however she likes, but to please not mis-use your belongings.

IgnoreMeEveryOtherReindeerDoes · 07/10/2015 12:41

YABU as you should always clean/rinse bath out after use

bialystockandbloom · 07/10/2015 12:42

You're right, that's rank.

WannabeLaraCroft · 07/10/2015 12:50

Eww no way, yeuch!!!

She is BU. Tell her you've been using her toothbrush to clean the sink!

catfordbetty · 07/10/2015 12:58

OP, what do you use to clean the bath?

mrstweefromtweesville · 07/10/2015 12:59

It is not ok, its gross.

Nabootique · 07/10/2015 13:01

YANBU. Yuk. I caught my DD cleaning the bath with her face flannel Shock Shock She knows how anal I am about flannels and faces and face washing. I was aghast. She wanted to be helpful as she saw me cleaning the sink with a cleaning cloth.

She's 5, btw Grin

CrapBag · 07/10/2015 13:04

"OP, what do you use to clean the bath?"

How patronising. No way would a female MNetter be asked this question.

helenahandbag · 07/10/2015 13:06

That's grim, I would be really annoyed and it sounds like something my DP would do. Yes, the same DP who used my freshly laundered dish towel to mop up a spill on the floor and put it back on the counter

EponasWildDaughter · 07/10/2015 13:10

I see the 'poor woman having to clean the bath' posts have begun.

Muckogy · 07/10/2015 13:11

urgh. that's horrible. would she like it if you used her toothbrush to clean around the sink taps?

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BoomBoomsCousin · 07/10/2015 13:11

I always used to run round the bath with the back brush when I had baths. It's scrubbing away exactly the same dirt from the bath as it would be from your body. What's gross about it?

MarkRuffaloCrumble · 07/10/2015 13:11

Use her toothbrush to clean the toilet. Then see if she realises she was unreasonable Wink

JaneAustinAllegro · 07/10/2015 13:13

YABU as you should have cleaned out your own bath you lazy sod

If you leave iron filing shavings around the sink when you shave (if you are indeed a man or very hairy lady), then she's equally justified in using yoru toothbrush to clear up after you.

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