Long and boring alert!
I have a dtwin sister who I'm very close to but we have quite a tempestuous relationship (mid 20s). We're living in the same house right now which is fine but as much as I love her (and I do - if she wasn't there id really miss her), we can be unnecessarily cruel to each other (verbally) and sometimes just don't know when to stop. It's uncontrollable, we just don't know how to talk nicely to each other (but funnily enough we can have a laugh and a joke when with company and can be civil then).
Her big thing to use against me right now is that I'm a bit of a failure (I was maybe the more traditionally academic one at school but she went to the top top uni and I went to an academic but less prestigious one)... I'm actually having some time out of uni atm which my family didn't expect so that's why I'm fair game for this.
My "thing" to use against her is that she doesn't have friends This is patently untrue but i had a closer friendship group in the past and although it's a nasty thing to say, I say it when she upsets me (in anger) sometimes. She has told me how she hates it when I say it, and I do feel guilty and horrible.
I guess my point is, is it half and half? Am I the bitch? More importantly how can we get on??? I would really love to. If anyone has similar sibling stories and now you both really get on would love to hear
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Crazycatlaydee · 06/10/2015 15:06
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