DP has depression and I found out last week he had stopped taking his medication 2 weeks ago. This bout has lasted a year and he stops and starts the tablets. When he is bad he drinks too much, disappears all night and wont answer his phone to me. This happens on a weekly basis. He runs his own business and I work full time. We have a toddler and a dog.
We had just got past a month of him not drinking, I was starting to trust him again and basically unclench. Then I noticed his behaviour was deteriorating. He then admitted stopping taking his medication. He went to the Doctors on Fri and is now back on them but obviously they will take a while to settle again. In the meantime he wont get up, shouts at the dog, avoids our son and talks to me with a sneer on his face. Im doing all the night wakings with our son and am quite frankly exhausted with the lack of sleep, worry about him and stress at work. He quite often talks about ending his life.
This evening we argued about a favour my Dad was doing. Our son was in bed. I wanted a time to tell my Dad and he couldnt stop snapping. Eventually I snapped back and said he should go take another tablet. Obviously this was wrong but I couldnt take the bad attitude. He has now stormed out and i have no doubt he will stay out all night. I apologised but he said he couldnt even look at me. I dont know what to do/say now. Im just so cross that he stopped taling the tablets and the effect it has on us all.
I know it was a terrible thing to say.
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Cantbebotheredtocutupfruit · 04/10/2015 19:20
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