Dd1 is 5.5 Dd2 is 3.
Whilst I was out shopping today , I picked them up some silly straws and some plastic jewellery .
There were 5 straws in the pack . I asked each dd to pick their favourite and that would be their own straw. I said they could share the rest.
Dd2 picked her straw and said thank you .
Dd1 went on and on about how she couldn't choose her favourite , she wanted two ! I said she could pick one and share the rest .
She kept taking the straws out my hand , hugging them and doing her awful fake tantrum cry . Shaking herself and legs in anger and insisting she wanted two
I told her I was starting to get cross , her behaviour was rude and her 3 year old sister had picked one , so she had to too . She still wanted two - she even tried to make a "deal" where both straws would be hers , but she would only use one today.
In the end , I told her to put both of the straws back and she would have none .
Obviously a tantrum erupted .
She then decided she could pick her favourite and reluctantly took one straw , but cried about it .
Later in the day , I got out the pack of bracelets when they were playing dressing up . All the bracelets in the pack were the same . Both girls picked a bracelet and seemed happy .
A few minutes later , dd1 came to me and said her bracelet had a bit of plastic sticking up (it was just the edge of the bracelet , not sharp and all the bracelets had the same but on ) . Dd1 asked for a different bracelet .
I said the bracelets were the same , they had been put away and we weren't picking a different one right now as it was almost time for dinner .
She again , went on and on about it and then chucked her bracelet across the floor
At this point , I picked up the bracelet and put it away , telling her there was no bracelet for rude behaviour .
I explained to her why her behaviour was rude and it was bad manners to ask for more when you are offered something .
She is going to her first ever party next week and I am petrified I'm going to have the child who behaves like a brat when the party bags are given out
Did I handle this ok? WIBU?
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Lostallsanity · 29/09/2015 19:02
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