We don't get on. We split up officially 9 yrs ago, divorced recently due to financial ties (house). DCs are mid to late teens, see him twice a year where all he does he slag me off and go to the pub - they don't want to see him again. When he'd pick them up he'd glare at me, nothing else. DP and his car would be at work or out at pick up/drop off times.
I've been with DP for 5 years and we're getting married. XH doesn't even know I've been seeing anyone. XH is a bully to women and children, until they get taller than him and/or answer back. He would literally shit himself if he saw DP.
No mutual friends, he has no friends. I think he's still pretending to the bank and tax office that we're married.
So. What would you do and AIBU?
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
AIBU?
to not tell XH I'm remarrying?
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HellKitty · 29/09/2015 16:16
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