Hey everyone, had to name change.
Basically I was in an abusive relationship with DS dad, since many months and years of social services being involved, supervised visits etc. DS dad now can see DS unsupervised.
With the social worker, we've made a plan that every two weeks on Friday, DS dad will collect DS from school and have him over the weekend. This plan began six months ago. Since then, DS dad has been inconsistent with his visitation with DS. He makes up excuses saying " I couldn't get through to your phone to pick him up", "It's raining outside", "I have to do something quick"..etc. There are times where the school has called me on Fridays asking me to pick up DS as his dad has failed to pick him up.
I'm tired of this to be honest, he now hasn't seen DS for a month and I'm thinking of cutting all contact, blocking his number etc. AIBU to do this?
It makes me sad when I see DS upset that his dad hasn't picked him up. But on the other hand, if I do block DS dad's number, I'm worried that I will be interfering with their relationship and I'll be the "blame" for DS not having contact with his dad.
What do you guys think?
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To cut contact with DS dad for good
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LoveisnotallIneed · 26/09/2015 12:22
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