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AIBU?

To think a true arachnophobic...

48 replies

BuggersMuddle · 24/09/2015 22:12

...doesn't post close of shots of the massive spiders that have terrified them on Facebook. Furthermore, if you are truly arachnophobic, you don't talk about how you had to 'pick it up and get it out'.

My FB is currently full of 'arachnophobes' posting pictures of giant spiders; discussing the removal of spiders and 'shuddering'.

I am arachnophobic. I don't like to see spiders on a page without warning. I sure as shit can't approach wolf spiders 2-3" across (inc legs) and kill them, so I certainly can't pick them up, nor move them.

AIBU to think the 'eek look at the huge spider' people are not arachnophobes to any meaningful level.

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WorraLiberty · 24/09/2015 22:16

No they're probably not but I can't see that it matters really.

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bigbadbarry · 24/09/2015 22:17

I wish they'd bloody stop with the photos, I hide them all but still they come!

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janethegirl2 · 24/09/2015 22:18

I don't understand your post.

Do you want me to post spider pictures or not, cos I can!

There are huge ones marauding around here but as long as they don't walk over me I don't care.

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Scobberlotcher · 24/09/2015 22:24

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annatha · 24/09/2015 22:25

I agree, lots of people don't like spiders but few are actually arachnophobic. I struggle with spiders bigger than a pound coin and certainly couldn't remove big spiders myself, just seeing the pictures makes me anxious.

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DoJo · 24/09/2015 22:49

They probably aren't - are they claiming to be debilitated by their fear or are they just sharing in the hope that someone will give them a virtual pat on the back?

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BuggersMuddle · 24/09/2015 22:55

Fair point scobber - although a few of the offenders ought to know better, but it might not have crossed their minds.

jane For avoidance of doubt, I know my enemy well enough and so am not a fan of random spider pictures. So no, please don't bother to share.

Worra I guess it doesn't if you're not arachnophobic, but if you are really arachnophobic (like I am) then it's something to consider.

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BuggersMuddle · 24/09/2015 22:57

Dojo They are claiming to be truly arachnophobic. But still managing close up photos and removal (albeit at a distance, so less of an issue).

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Fairylea · 24/09/2015 23:02

I agree with you.

I am so terrified of spiders I am actively wincing every time I open Facebook at the moment in absolute dread of seeing spider photos. :( :( Even a photo of one is deeply upsetting to me and makes me feel really stressed out. I hate this time of year.

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sproketmx · 24/09/2015 23:03

I'm shit scared of rats in rl. Pictures of them make me shudder but not much else. If I walk into the feed store and fine one u end up running for an air rifle, pistol, shotgun etc and blowing huge Fucking holes everywhere till the bastard is dead then I send for an a minaj that will remove it for me but pictures not so much. I'm not irrational enough to think that the picture will somehow come to life leap out the screen and head for my jugular with teeth bared

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sproketmx · 24/09/2015 23:04

Send for an animal, not a minaj. She'd be Fucking useless in agriculture I daresay Grin

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Madeyemoodysmum · 24/09/2015 23:04

So I got 3 in two days in beakers covered with books waiting for dh to take outside. I can cover them with a beaker and leave for dh I do it with squinty eyes so I can't see it well. Rather that than let them roam! I do scream. Am I a true arachnophobe or not??????

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WorraLiberty · 24/09/2015 23:34

Worra I guess it doesn't if you're not arachnophobic, but if you are really arachnophobic (like I am) then it's something to consider.

Well yes but you'll be getting help for your phobia won't you?

Whilst you are, it can't be pleasant seeing what others post on the internet but the good thing is, at least arachnophobia doesn't take too long to cure as a rule.

Keep at it OP Thanks

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WorraLiberty · 24/09/2015 23:36

Madeye probably not if you can cover them.

My guess (going purely on what you've posted) is that if you lived alone you would got the extra mile and slide a bit of cardboard under the beaker, so you could tip the spider outside.

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WorraLiberty · 24/09/2015 23:37

*go

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vaticancameos · 25/09/2015 07:12

No I disagree OP. My friend and I are terrified but do share the Facebook horror stories and pictures because I'm phobic of spiders not pictures. It's house spiders in particular. I scream jump on chairs. And then ask the neighbour If they would be so kind as to come in and ice it. And no I don't have time at the moment to seek treatment for the anxiety but I will add it to my to do list.

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vaticancameos · 25/09/2015 07:13

Move it not ice it

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OublietteBravo · 25/09/2015 07:19

I'm arachnophobic - I can't even go into a room containing a large spider, let alone get close enough to do anything about it. I bought a new toothbrush and used the kitchen sink when there was a big spider in the bath and DH was away because I couldn't make myself go into the bathroom (fortunately the toilet is in a separate room to the bath/sink). Strangely I'm OK with pictures. I can't handle videos, but if I know there is no possibility of the spider image actually moving it doesn't bother me.

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Witchend · 25/09/2015 07:47

Surely there are difficult degrees of phobia though?

I would say I'm scared of spiders rather than phobic. I can cope now with small ones (1cm long or less) if they're not moving. Can control myself if I see bigger ones up to about an inch. Can even catch those with our nifty catcher.
The spindly ones bigger than that again I can cope with.

But the big evil ones I am reduced to a jelly like state. I have a couple of places in the house that need tidying and I'm putting off because I'm afraid there might be spiders in there. I'll ask dh to get everything out and check first.
If I think there's a spider in the room I can't sleep and will move room.
I can cope, but not like, spider pictures because they're not moving usually. It's the movement that really gets me.

Is this a phobia? I'm not screaming the place down at a mention, but that isn't what I do anyway.

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TheCunnyFunt · 25/09/2015 07:51

Absolutely roaring at sending for a minaj :o :o :o

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whatsbehindthegreendoor · 25/09/2015 08:14

I am terrified of spiders, I mean, so bad that I haven't bought a banana in about 4 years just in case there's spiders eggs in there. I HATE it when people post pictures of massive spiders on their Facebook page. I am constantly hiding those posts!

My husband is brilliant, thank goodness. He'll check the bedroom every night for me at this time of year and, even though he's not overly fond of them himself, will always get rid of them for me.
We live in a first floor flat and for about 10 years we were never bothered with big house spiders, but this year we've had 4 or 5 massive ones already. The only good thing is that we haven't been bothered by daddy long legs, but even so.....

My brother threw a spider at me when we were very small and it bit me, ever since then I've been terrified!

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PumpkinPie2013 · 25/09/2015 09:36

I have a phobia of spiders - I certainly wouldn't be taking photos or moving them - to me those people are not keen on spiders rather than phobic.

I am so bad that I can't be in a room if I know there is a spider, I check rooms as I go in for spiders, can't move them / stand on them or hoover them.

I've called on neighbours to move them when I've been alone and found a spider!

As for the pictures - I don't look at them either!

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bingandflop · 25/09/2015 09:42

I can see where ur coming from as I am genuinely arachnophobic and they reduce me to a crying wreck. Another gripe of mine is when people casually claim OCD when in fact they are just a bit anal about something. My brother has OCD. It is a serious mental illness and had ruined his life

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ProudAS · 25/09/2015 10:01

Phobias do vary in severity but there is also a difference between a fear and a phobia

Some people can't even look at a picture of a spider whilst others may be able to steel themselves to look at a live one.

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UncertainSmile · 25/09/2015 10:16

I'm amazed that some twat hasn't been here yet and told everyone that they are more scared of you/are fab because they eat flies/ killing them is tantamount to murder/ stop making a fuss. They usually post on threads about spiders.

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