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Not really sure where to post about it really so thought AIBU would be best for traffic purposes.
For about a year and a half now I have been having niggling suspicions about one of my closest friend's husband. They are both very old friends - the husband was at school with my husband and is his best friend, even though they live a long distance from us now.
We don't see each other that often but for the last few occasions when we have, the husband seems to find excuses to touch me, not in an over familiar or intimate way but just way more than he did previously - to the point that I have noticed it happening. Rather than saying excuse me to get past, for example, or to put a hand on my arm to move me aside, he'll stand behind me and put both hands on my waist and move me aside. He does it in front of my husband and his wife, it's not done secretly or anything, but it wouldn't really attract comment because we've all been friends for such a long time and are fairly familiar with each other. This just seems a bit more than usual though and it's making me feel a bit uncomfortable. I've also noticed that when we go out somewhere, for a meal or to the pub or something, or even just in a group in one of our houses, he'll usually manage to end up sitting next to me.
I'm sat writing all of this out and it seems really ridiculous now I've got it down on 'paper' but something just seems a little odd. My friend and her husband have been having problems for a little while so I don't know if it has something to do with that.
So, do you think I am being paranoid? What would you do? Should I say something to the husband, my friend, MY husband? I've been on the verge of saying something to DH all week, as we saw our friends fairly recently, but don't want to make a mountain out of a molehill if I'm just imagining things!
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ParanoidPanda · 03/09/2015 22:51
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