I have always been the OCD, must be tidy, clean, tasks done kind of person.
DS came along. I love him more than words can describe but I haven't recently found myself thinking, god I'm doing mindless shit X, Y, Z when I should be playing with him, watching tv with him, reading to him.
Our typical night. I get home at 515. I cook tea if DH hasn't. Tea is at 6. Tidy up after tea. Takes me to about 630. He then watches ITNG and I find myself making lunches for the following day or some other task.
Lately I have realised I should be putting all that stuff to the side and spending my time with him. He suddenly turned 1. well not suddenly obviously but it felt like it!
I find myself letting him play on his own whilst I busy myself with things.
How do you do it? Not put housework etc over your child. I feel awful that one day I'll turn around and have missed something, all because I was busy doing something else.
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cjt110 · 02/09/2015 14:01
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