ok - firstly I love my DH and most of the time we are a great team
Today we have just had a row, not a massive one but are both now sulking, luckily I got the bedroom
hes says I'm in a foul mood, and hes glad the DC are out of the house
I say I am fed up of making all the decisions, doing things when they need doing (ie hanging up the washing when it has finished not two hours later, hovering the DC bedroom when it is clear, not waiting for it to be messed up again) and the best one today - me to him - do we need to go shopping? him to me - I don't know - well have we got any food in? no - then we probably need to buy some (bangs head against something)
He is main carer for dc and works part time, he does most of the cooking etc and I work long hours. However as we have both just had a week away it seems I am doing all the woman working including the thinking and planning ahead. We are both working on Tuesday and he still hasn't got any plans for the dc. He has known about this for weeks!
I'm frustrated at him but apparently I'm too grumpy and its my fault
I wish he would plan a bit better - and listen to me. He keeps telling me we need to pack before moving but I have told him at least 20 times we will get a company in to pack, what I need him to do is sort through his stuff to work out whats not coming with us. Packing up my books that are all coming is not a productive use of my time!
Rant over - judge away
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Mindexplode · 30/08/2015 09:56
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