I looked after a 5 year old at my house today. She was playing quite happily with my DD and we did a few activities together. She also admired some of my DD's toys, among other we've been collecting some little freebies.
After the 5 year old had gone home, I was tidying up and couldn't find one of the little freebies. The one in question is the 'best' one, ie it's pink and sparkly, all of the others are flat, dull colours. I remember the 5 year old particularly mentioning this one when she was looking at DD's toys earlier.
AIBU to think the 5 year old may have pocketed it? And if I really can't find it later after DD has gone to bed and I've completely blitzed the living room, WIBU to casually ask the 5 year old's mum if she's seen it? (Casually as in not accusing the 5 year old of taking it but along the lines of- oh DD's got some of those, but we lost the pink one recently, you didn't see it when you picked child up, did you?)
It's not the actual toy I'm bothered about- after all it was free- more concerned that I often have this child over to play with DD (and vice versa) and I don't want her thinking it's ok to take things that aren't hers. It wouldn't be practical to put all of DD's stuff away when the 5 year old comes over (besides, what if she took a fancy to something of mine next time?)
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CrohnicallyAspie · 28/08/2015 18:31
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