Posting for support because I can't physically talk to my friends and family about what's going on. My 30 year old big brother has been diagnosed with leukemia. Apparently it's the 'best kind of cancer' to get because it's a very easily treatable kind but he has absolutely none of the risk factors, never smoked, healthy diet, active job, rarely drinks and he's relatively young. I'm so angry about how unfair and nonsensical it is. My DP has tried to reassure me by saying that it's treatable but my big brother has been hooked up to a dialysis-type machine and had bone marrow taken from his spine and it just doesn't make sense why he's got this disease. He's only told me, our sister and his in-laws because our nan has just had a mini-stroke and he hasn't been speaking to our mum much recently. I don't feel like I can talk to my friends about it because I'm still trying to process it myself. When he was bullied at school, I stood up for him. When his first love dumped him, we could look after him. What the fuck are we supposed to do when our brother has to go through painful treatments and is miles away from us?!
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