It's my ds birthday next month, he'll be 6. pil live 3hrs away and usually come and stay locally to us for 2/3 days so they can see him on his birthday.... His bday falls on a sat, so they'll be here fri-mon.
Coincidentally my sil (pil daughter) is staying in our area at the same time (it's a touristy area and they visited before we moved here) arriving on afternoon of my ds birthday.
Mil has been suggesting things to do for a day out with ds on his birthday. Which is fine, but I suggested that we do the nice day out on the Sunday, so sil, her dh, and their newborn ds can spend the day with us too.
But mil was't keen on this idea and kept going on about what we'll do on his actual birthday, and was really pushing doing a day out without sil as she doesn't want to upset her son inlaws (her dds dh) parents by doing something with her newborn gc that they won't be involved in!
So she'd rather not spend a nice day out with all her gc together (which has only ever happened once before, at a party last month which the other set of parents were at) at risk of upsetting the other gp?
Ainu to think this is crazy, and actually feel like she's put their feelings before mine?
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To be peed off with mil re: my ds birthday plans
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FuryFowler · 27/08/2015 22:29
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