I'm fuming! My partner left me at 8 weeks pregnant the relationship broke down. Since then he has offered me no financial support, I understand he does not legally have to provided for his unborn child until he is born but babies cost money! My pregnancy is high risk and I'm being scanned every 4 weeks in London at a specialist unit due to my DD having a genetic condition. This is costing me a fortune in train fairs to London parking and childcare for DD whilst I attend these appointments. So far everything the baby needs has been bought by myself.
ExP has to DDs with his first wife. Last month he transferred her more than double his usual maintenance payment. last night I had yet ANOTHER conversation with him about him providing things for his unborn son or helping me with some off the costs relating to pregnancy and him telling me he doesn't need anything until he is born. I asked why his ex wife had received so much money last month he tells me that she's taking the kids away (with her new partner) and he was paying towards the cost off the holiday! WTF!
What makes this situation worse is that when we moved in together I cut my hours down at work to enable me to care for my DD (who is disabled) with both salaries it was affordable. Now I'm on my own even with tax credits I can't afford to live in this house only working two days a week and being pregnant and due in 16 weeks not in a position to increase my hours so I've sold my house and in the process off buying somewhere cheaper. So he has left me pregnant caring for a disabled 7 year old having to move house and offering no support whilst he pays for his ex wife and kids to go on holiday arrrrrgggggggg.
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Cazzybaby · 21/08/2015 09:25
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