I've just found out my BF has been cheating on me. It's bad timing as my DSis is abroad at the monent and she is the only person other than BF whom I'd lean on in a crisis such as this.
We have spoken on the phone a couple of times since I found out for about 20/30 minutes which I understand is the last thing she wants to do when she's on holiday. This is why I've not called her excessively even though I could do with the support right now.
What has upset me is that during our last phone call I asked if I could read a message exchange between my bf and ow out loud to her and I heard DSis whisper 'not really' in a fed up tone. I Don't think I was meant to hear it and I'm probably being over sensitive but it really hurt me.
Just to give context, we're very close, I'd say we're best friends. She has been going through a tough time over the last few years and I am always there for her, sometimes spending hours talking to her on the phone several times a week. Often I've had other important things to do but generally I'll drop it all to be there for my DSis. And I never complain about it because I feel like it's my job to be there for her when she needs me.
Just feeling massively alone right now and like I have nobody to lean on. I have other friends but nobody I am as close to or would call on in a crisis .
I'm probably BU. Guess I just needed a rant.
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JustShootMePlease · 28/07/2015 18:56
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