I've been single, quite happily, for almost 8 years - have had a few flings in that time but nothing serious. A couple of months ago I met someone by chance, we hit it off and exchanged numbers. Almost immediately we were talking and texting every day (more him than me - he definitely did most of the chasing.) We seemed to connect and there was definitely a spark, or so I thought. We had a few dates which went really well, loads of conversation, lots of laughter. We had loads in common, he confided in me about his childhood etc. Then all of a sudden, he just stopped calling and texting. He sent me a text last Wednesday, I replied, then nothing. I tried calling the following day, no answer. I sent one final text a few days later asking him to let me know what was going on, said it was fine if he didn't want to meet up anymore but to please let me know. Nothing. There was nothing leading up to this to suggest that he was going cold/wasn't interested, conversation was all normal.
He's obviously decided he doesn't want to see me anymore but AIBU to think this is just cowardly, and the least he could do is give some sort of explanation, or even make up an excuse? I'm so annoyed that the one person I've felt any sort of connection with in the best part of a decade has turned out to be so horrible, and even more annoyed at myself for caring so much!
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AIBU?
To think this is the most cowardly way to dump someone?
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muminthecity · 28/07/2015 01:02
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