My DD who is 14 got drunk a few months ago and engaged in sexual activity with a boy (not intercourse).
She told me about it as she felt guilty and was very upset. I told my husband who went crazy about it (to be expected) and called her all sorts of names, slag etc
Since then they don't appear to have much of a relationship. She says he doesn't like her. She will speak to him but he will be quite abrupt or ignore her. He loses his temper with her quite easily. He is quite moody anyway, well for the last three years or so.
He tells me she has no respect for anything or anyone. He says I spend too much time chauffeuring her about. I think she is being a normal teenager. She will snap on occasions plus have moods but she realises this and will apologise.
He doesn't think she should be out with her friends all the time even though it is the summer holidays and that she should stay in more.
He said to me he could easily kick her out if she was 16, he wouldn't though. I feel like I'm caught between our DD and husband.
I'm beginning to think maybe I should split with him and move out with our other child also. I'm really fed up with it and cant see any other way.
Any advice would be appreciated.
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funnybones30 · 27/07/2015 21:38
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