Ok, so this is a MIL thread... sorry.
Basically we are christening DD next week, and I am hoping to go to the venue the day before to prep (got sandwiches to make etc). I was going to leave DD with DH for the day, but his PIL are coming down and MIL has major form for disrupting our routines with DD. I know this all sounds v pfb, but she is only a few months and needs her daytime naps. MIL constantly wakes her up from them, or doesn't let her go to sleep, as she tells me 'she will sleep better overnight...'!!
I don't want to be a bloody moaning b*tch about it, but I really don't want DD in a terrible, cranky mood at her christening because she's had a disrupted day the day before.
WIBU to ask my husband to not let his mum take DD off him for the day (this is what she will want to do, she was trying to take her away from me when DD was only days old to spend the night with them!?), and to just spend some time with DD and DH and keep to her usual routines?
MIL can be a v difficult, dramatic character, so it makes simple things like this so bloody stressful! She is also very possessive of my DD and constantly talks about wanting to 'show her off' etc, which I don't like as I don't want her treated like someone's favourite doll!
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justmeokay · 21/07/2015 13:17
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