So we have 3dc. I am a sah bar maybe 1 day per month. Pretty much all the childcare, school admin housework etc is down to me. By this I also mean bedtime, night wakings, cooking and washing up during the week etc. Dh works long hours so I guess we are both busy. He also does finances and less regular jobs liike diy
anyway that is just background. So tonight dh was home early. I did tea for children and took eldest to scouts event 10 miles awayand than met friend for hour before returning to collect. When I returned dd3 had apparently been asleep (on sofa still in daytime clothes and nappy). She approached for milk and clearly needed changing so I changed her.
Dh decided to go upstairs to chill as I was home. Very shortly after this the poo floodgates literally had opened. Dd had pooed on the floor and on me. She was covered, the floor was covered etc. So I shouted up to dh to say what had happened. He heard as he responded with an o type sound but did not get off his arse to come down and help.
aibu to challenge him over this.He is now asleep unlike dd.
o and the washing up I didn't have time to do was still in the sink.
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to think a decent parent/dh would have rushed down to help
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fab39 · 18/07/2015 00:10
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