I have posted before about DSD's rotting teeth. She lives with her DM through the week and with us in a weekend.
She used to stay with us 4/5 nights a week up until nearly two years ago when her DM moved away and took DSD with her. Since then her teeth have started to rot. There was an occasion, maybe a month or so back, where DSDs DM took her to the dentist only to be told that DSD needed 3 fillings. When she dropped DSD off at our house, after the appointment, DSD had a bottle of fanta, chocolate around her mouth and a cake in her hand. I was furious! It seems like basic common sense not to buy your child sugary drinks, sweets, cakes etc when she needs 3 fillings at 4 years old.
We've had DSD back and forth to the dentist because of her teeth in the last month or so. They wouldnt sedate her to fill her teeth because she is under 7 and she refused to open her mouth etc or cooperate with the dentist until last Friday.
We picked DSD up on Friday night and she started crying on the way home but wouldn't tell us what was the matter. We got back home and DSD told me that earlier in the week, part of her back tooth had "snapped" off.
She let me have a look in her mouth and sure enough, part of her back molar had broken off and underneath was red, sore and looked painful. I rang up our dentist straight away to see if I could get an emergency appointment for DSD and managed to get one the next morning.
What a night, poor DSD was up from 10 - 5:30 crying in agony because her tooth was hurting! Next morning a very tired DP and I took a very tired, upset and (understandably) grumpy DSD to the dentist. He said that she had extensive dental decay and that she had an abscess under the affected tooth caused by a bacterial infection. DP mad myself got a bit of a dressing down. We've always really looked after both DC'S teeth, I'm in my mid 20's and have never had a filling, they only drink water and sweets are an occasional treat. I bought them both an electric toothbrush and either myself or DP brush their teeth. DSD eventually and bravely might I add agreed to a local anaesthetic, the dentist drained the infection, filled the tooth and gave DSD a course of antibiotics.
DP gave DSDs DM a dressing down, he told her that the sweets and fizzy pop that she always has when he comes to pick her up have to stop etc. He also said that he'd noticed that on most pictures that his exP uploaded on to FB of DSD she had fizzy drinks or chocolate or sweets. I don't have his exP on FB so wasn't aware of this.
Her defence was that if DP hadn't split from her when she was a baby then she wouldn't feel the need to spoil her with sweets etc. she also said that DSD carries on for them throws a tantrum when she doesn't get what she wants. I really think that DP should consider going for custody, it just seems so obvious to me that we're fighting a losing battle here otherwise.
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chronictreehugger · 06/07/2015 16:06
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