I'm only 9 weeks. Ds is 6. I wanted him to hear it from us and not until I was a bit further on and had had my scan.
I wasn't there but apparently ds was asking for an ice lolly and she said something along the lines of (according to dh), 'you'll have to learn to wait a minute when mummy has her baby.'
We've been trying for this baby for three years. Aibu to have wanted to tell ds myself with dh?! I didn't want to make it a particularly big deal of it either as am aware ds has been an only for a long time and is not especially thrilled with the news. I wanted to frame it as 'our baby' not 'mummy's baby.'
Now ds knows earlier than I wanted him to and if something goes wrong I've now got the additional trauma of telling him about it and worrying how he will react.
I'm really really cross.
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Am very cross. Mil has told ds I am pregnant.
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SweetCharlotteRose · 05/07/2015 17:22
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