It's not the first time.
I took the DC out this morning so DH could have a lie-in. He gets so tired by the end of the week, so we take it in turns. The deal was that as soon as I get home, DH will care for DC while I get my rest. I have MS so get ill if I don't rest regularly. It inconveniences both DH and I, but I have to factor in my rest or I can't even get through the day easily.
When I got home today, DH was beautifully rested and then said I have less than 30 minutes until we have to leave the house. He had arranged to meet a friend this afternoon.
I reminded him of our plan, and he said he would go and leave me with sleeping DC2, and we could join him and DC1 later. However he's overlooking the fact that in the past month, dc2 has been sleeping between 30-60 minutes (at best 45 mins). Only once all month did we have a full 2 hour sleep out of dc2. Despite knowing this, DH still wanted to leave the house and risk it, meaning that if dc2 only sleeps for 30 minutes then I don't get my adequate rest.
When I pointed this out he got arsy and said he would have to wake dc2 up and take both children. I didn't feel that was fair either.
He made out I am being unreasonable, but I think he's being selfish (again). AIBU?
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SpringInTheStep · 27/06/2015 12:52
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